Building an Emotional Bank Account starts with the small things, because even the simplest bid for connection can make all the difference. 💙 Successful couples turn toward each other 86% of the time when a bid is made. That’s what strengthens trust, love, and lasting connection. Want to learn more key habits for a successful relationship? Watch the full video on YouTube. https://youtu.be/nQ5DYlbi9y8 | The Gottman Institute
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Building an Emotional Bank Account starts with the small things, because even the simplest bid for connection can make all the difference. 💙 Successful couples turn toward each other 86% of the time when a bid is made. That’s what strengthens trust, love, and lasting connection. Want to learn more key habits for a successful relationship? Watch the full video on YouTube. https://youtu.be/nQ5DYlbi9y8 | The Gottman Institute
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Keeping your emotional bank account in the positive gives your relationship a base of goodwill to work from. In their New York Times bestselling book, The Love Prescription, Drs. John and Julie Gottman show you how to start improving your relationship in just seven days. | The Gottman Institute
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How full is your Emotional Bank Account? Each positive interaction with your partner is an investment in your relationship. These moments add up, strengthening your connection over time. Want to fill your Emotional Bank Account? Start small by noticing your partner’s bids for connection. Turn towards them often. Bid by bid, your interactions will positively sculpt your relationship until your "savings" represents the wealth of love you share. You can’t put a price on that. Invest in your relatio
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How full is your Emotional Bank Account? Each positive interaction with your partner is an investment in your relationship. These moments add up, strengthening your connection over time. Want to fill your Emotional Bank Account? Start small by noticing your partner’s bids for connection. Turn towards them often. Bid by bid, your interactions will positively sculpt your relationship until your "savings" represents the wealth of love you share. You can’t put a price on that. Invest in your relatio
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Every relationship has an Emotional Bank Account. The key is to make more deposits than withdrawals. Here’s how to keep your balance high. Written and narrated by: Logan Ury | The Gottman Institute
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